Apr 17, 2019
As a kid, you probably wanted to be cool. And if you were a boy, being cool meant being tough. Being tough meant being able to fight and win. If you weren’t tough, you immediately felt inadequate. You weren’t going to be able to protect yourself, you weren’t going to be able to protect anyone else, and women were not going to be attracted to you.
But, as with every Man Rule, there’s a positive side. The Fight Rule and the Protector Rule are closely related. Often the fight can inspire men to protect and defend the people, institutions, and values that we hold dear.
In this episode, Allen and Dan talk about their conflicting feelings of fear, shame, and pride in their own personal histories with fighting.